Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband wants sex with me every single day – I am beginning to worry that he is addicted to me.

I am 36 and my husband is 38. We met at a mutual friend’s 40th birthday party when we were both in other relationships.

img alt=" My husband always wants sex, sometimes more than five times a day" data-src="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT0004157292482.jpg?w={width}" data-credit="Alamy" data-sizes="auto" data-img="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT0004157292482.jpg?strip=all&w=960" height="3840" width="5760""> My husband always wants sex, sometimes more than five times a day
My husband always wants sex, sometimes more than five times a day

He was flirty, I was flirty, and it was all fun and games. We kissed that night and decided to end our relationships with our partners. Everything was then perfect.

We now have sex no less than five times a day (the most ever was ten). I know it is a lot.

My husband is a very attentive lover, it is all about me.

He refuses to watch a porn video and pleasure himself. He doesn’t even look at other women and genuinely has no interest in anyone else.

img alt=" My husband is a very attentive lover, it is all about me and he won't even watch porn" data-src="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT000413077437.jpg?w={width}" data-credit="Alamy" data-sizes="auto" data-img="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT000413077437.jpg?strip=all&w=960" height="2803" width="4200""> My husband is a very attentive lover, it is all about me and he won't even watch porn
My husband is a very attentive lover, it is all about me and he won't even watch porn

He tells me I am the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen and says that to everyone, all the time.

It is amazing but the downside is that he loses his temper when I refuse to have sex with him.

He goes crazy, though I am not a bit intimidated by him and he is never physical.

He is just throwing his toys out of the pram, having a tantrum like a child.

Once, I withheld sex for two days and he literally had the shakes.

I have read a lot online about how people can become addicted to pornography but now I am wondering whether my husband has become addicted to me.

I wonder whether sex with me is not good for him.

img alt=" I'm worried he's addicted to me and I'm making it worse by having sex with him" data-src="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT000370135229.jpg?w={width}" data-credit="Alamy" data-sizes="auto" data-img="https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NINTCHDBPICT000370135229.jpg?strip=all&w=960" height="4912" width="7360""> I'm worried he's addicted to me and I'm making it worse by having sex with him
I'm worried he's addicted to me and I'm making it worse by having sex with him

Should I continue to have sex or am I just pouring fuel on the fire?

I wonder, too, whether I am just being ungrateful because he does after all give me so much attention and affection.

How do I know if it is an addiction, an obsession or just normal?

If it’s an addiction, how does my husband get help without putting our marriage on the line and losing the intimacy?

Topic4Today

NEARLY one-third of us are sleep deprived, putting us at risk of mental health and relationship problems.

My leaflet on Sleep Problems explains how to get a good night’s kip.

Email me at the address below or private- message me on Facebook.

DEIDRE SAYS: There is nothing wrong with a partner who wants sex every day if you are happy about it and want that too.

But a partner who pressurises his partner and can’t take no for an answer has a problem.

There is a big difference between having a high sex drive – enjoying lots of sex when it doesn’t interfere with other pleasures and responsibilities in life – and being addicted, which means his pressing need stops him getting on with life normally.

Popular Dear Deidre problems

picture">>

first cut

Caught my girl in bed with another man... then he did something I didn't expect picture">>

SEX WITH SISTER

I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship picture">>

HOTEL HELL

My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself picture">>

Little secret

My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father... and my husband has no idea picture">>

More, more, more!

Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more picture">>

FAMILY AFFAIR

Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law picture">>

Guilty sex

I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support picture">>

Blackmailed

I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex picture">>

anti-climax

Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her picture">>

FESTI-FAIL

I had hot sex at Glastonbury... but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend picture">>

TOUGH CHOICE

I'm having sex with my girlfriend's bestie... who's also dating my best mate

Your husband’s need isn’t just for sexual release but to fill an emotional void that quickly makes him feel threatened. It could go back to very early needs that were not met.

Tell your husband you love him and hate to see him getting distressed.

Instead of always looking for sex to fill that void, he needs to find a better way to manage his feelings.

My e-leaflet Addicted To Sex? will help him understand and explains where to get the right help.


READ NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE I'm nearly 65 and worried I'm losing interest in sex with my younger wife

READ DEIDRE'S PHOTO CASEBOOK  Gemma is sick of lying and considers leaving Nick for Damien


Get in touch with Deidre today

Got a problem? Send an email to problems@deardeidre.org. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.

Source : https://www.thesun.co.uk/dear-deidre/7279891/worried-husband-addicted-to-sex/

2340
Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

Source:The Sun

Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

Source:Wired

Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone

Source:Forbes

Third Trimester Woes: I’m Huge And I Hate Everyone